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"Give  us your gold and valuables," he said they demanded. Filled with fear,  his wife tried to calmly gather all jewelry she had. One of the  militants, noticing his son’s cross, ripped off the chain and started to  beat the boy, accusing the family of withholding their gold.  "What’s  for sure is they (the terrorists) are not all Iraqis. The ones with the  beards are not Iraqis," he said. The terrorists then warned they would  return to the family in 48 hours. At that time, the family must convert  to Islam, pay the Islamic jizya tax — or be killed.  "We were  happy, our life was good," he said, collapsing in tears. "All the work  of my father and myself and my brothers, all the years . gone in just a  few seconds," he said of the trading company he had to abandon.  "I  went to the cemetery and said good-bye to my father, and I went to Mass  in my church to receive the Eucharist," the father said, recounting his  actions of the following day. "I think it was the last Mass celebrated  in my village. And I thought, if I’m meant to die at this time, at least  I’m in God’s house." 
Fleeing to Irbil the night after the  attack, they boarded a flight to Beirut. The militants had told Joseph’s  neighbors — an 85-year-old woman, partially paralyzed by a stroke, and  her 60-year-old daughter — they had six hours to leave their home. Leaving  on foot, with the daughter assisting her disabled mother along the  road, the father hopes that they were able to find a ride.  Finding  a furnished apartment in Beirut, the rent is rather steep at $850 a  month. He’s now searching for cheaper accommodations, but jobs in tiny,  economically strapped Lebanon are hard to find. New refugees have to  compete with other refugees for work.