JACKSONVILLE – Every day on her way to work, Ruthann Bland drives alongside the column of pear trees, past the memorial and its solitary bronze Marine.Every day, she remembers her husband, the pictures on the television and the knock at the door.A 58-year-old Hubert resident, Bland lost her husband, Lance Cpl. Stephen Bland, on Oct. 23, 1983, a truck packed with explosives crashed through a barricade, past a sentry post and into the lobby of a Marine compound – 241 U.S. troops were killed, most of them Marines and sailors from 1st Battalion, 8th Marines. Stephen Bland was one of them."I was actually asleep, and I got a phone call," Ruthann Bland said. "It was my neighbor across the street asking me how my husband was. She said to go turn the TV on. That’s when I saw the building had been bombed."It was days before she was told her husband had died in the blast. "The whole time I’m thinking, I just got a letter from my husband," she said. "I’m really optimistic that it’s not him. I got the knock on the door, I was totally blown away."The bombing that killed Bland’s husband and his comrades remains the worst terrorist attack against Americans on foreign soil. Here in Jacksonville, it’s nearly impossible to forget about the Beirut tragedy. The pear trees lining N.C. 24 represent the lives lost, and a somber memorial sits close to the Camp Johnson gate.