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It’s a common sight at a city intersection. A man or a woman holds a
cardboard sign: “Homeless, Hungry. Please Give. Anything Helps.”
Most motorists, stopped at the light and eager to move on, just ignore the person. But what should you do before the light changes?
The Denver-based urban ministry Christ in the City offers some advice. “Ask the person’s name,” said the group’s tip sheet. “One of our
friends on the street told us he went four months without hearing his
own name. Ask the person’s name and remember it. Those with a regular commute should remember that name and say hello the next time. “You’ll be amazed how his or her face will light up that you remembered.”
“To love is to know and be known,” Christ in the City said. “And so,
the chronically homeless become unknown, they become separated, not just
from society but from the experience of love itself.”
The chronically homeless are the most resistant to social services
and other help. They’re most likely to have substance abuse or mental
health problems.
Erin McCrory, the ministry’s managing director, reflected on their situation.
“They’ve told us that once your reality becomes eating out of garbage
cans and you don’t hear your name spoken for months at a time, you
accept this is your reality,” McCrory told the Denver Catholic Register.
“Their spirits are broken and they are lacking in hope and faith in
people.”
There are other ways of making personal contact.
“Reach out and offer a handshake,” the group’s tip sheet advised.
“This simple gesture breaks a barrier and expresses that you recognize
their dignity. One moment of awkwardness for you can be the highlight of
the day for him or her.”
Each year, a new team of Christ in the City missionaries gathers in
Denver for efforts such as homeless outreach. About 25 young
missionaries volunteer for two years, receiving spiritual and academic
formation in their time of service.The group says one missionary alone reaches 500 homeless and engages
80-100 volunteers to engage in more than 62,000 hours of service for the
homeless.
The group advises people to give more practical items in lieu of
money, like socks, water, Gatorade, or gloves. Those who give food
should keep in mind that people who live on the street often have teeth
problems and can’t eat hard granola bars or apples. Soft foods like
bananas or soft-baked granola bars are more edible.
“Giving money is a personal decision that requires discernment. Gift
cards can be a better alternative to cash,” Christ in the City said.
Items showing personal care are more likely to keep a focus on
friendship.
“Your love and compassion is more effective than five bucks,” the group added.
The group’s final piece of advice?
“Offer to pray for them, and mean it,” Christ in the City said. “We
try to be another Christ to our friends on the street, but we accept
that we can only do so much. The rest we leave up to God in prayer. He
loves our friends more than we ever could.”
The organization has had requests to expand into five other dioceses.
An earlier version of this article ran on CNA Sept. 23, 2016.
